what can i say
Monday 23 June 2008 by ranon
you keep telling yourself that you've to get over it but what do you do when you watch re-runs of grey's anatomy and they keep telling you stuff like
it's like one day you realise the fairytale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, may not be a castle. and it's not so important it's happy ever after, just that it's happy right now.
once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you. the rest you've gotta take on faith. and once in a while, people may even take your breath away.
that knowing is better than wondering. that waking is better than sleeping. that even the biggest failure, the world's most inextricable mistake, beats the hell out of never trying.
friends need to draw lines but they never seem to do, and it is not my will to force it on them, but sometimes, you would think that they will be sensitive to do so like everyone else, or at least to see it from my point of view that it's not so easy to keep that distance like we wanted to.
it's conflicting, it's contradicting and sometimes i just wanna shout it in your face 'do you really care?!' because i don't think you do. and then you tell me it hurts when i doubt that you care, and all i'm saying to you is that if you did care, why does it seem so otherwise? why does it feel so otherwise? it's the last week here and i'm asking for a little more than phone calls only in response to the messages i send. like i mean genuine concern and genuine intentions about finding out how i am and talking to me without me having to probe first. i don't just wanna see you on random nights out because we make such casual conversation it's distressing.
talk to me like i mean something, as you claim, and not simply as a form of courtesy and formality.